May 24, 2022
“My first bit of advice is to stop wearing purple lipstick.”
That’s what the slightly uptight, middle-aged woman across the table told me. I was a naive 22 year-old eager to find a job and this no-nonsense, tweed-wearing consultant said she could help.
Until that very moment, I had no idea that my choice of lip color was going to be an impediment to landing employment. Good to know!
I took her advice to heart, not only as it…
Read MoreApril 19, 2022
I love the F word.
I use it frequently, in fact. I say it in front of my clients and candidates…in front of mature audiences and young professionals….even kids. Heck, I say it in front of my mother-in-law. I’m shameless about it.
No matter when or where I use it, it never fails to raise eyebrows.
I don’t think people are offended by it; they just don’t think about it that often. But they should. Because it’s absolutely…
Read MoreMarch 22, 2022
Many moons ago I was dating a gentleman we’ll call “Bob”. Things were getting pretty serious when, as fate would have it, I ran into my ex-boyfriend. We’ll call the ex “Josh”. Josh and I made small talk and caught up on life. Just as we were about to part ways, he hinted at maybe going out again sometime. I gently let him know I was dating someone else. I remember walking away feeling kinda bad for the guy.…
Read MoreJanuary 19, 2022
My father once gave me some fantastic dating advice:
“On the first date, ask him what drugs he is taking, legal and illegal.”
Subtly isn’t my dad’s forte, and now you know I came by it honestly. But you can understand what pops was getting at. Before you get serious about someone, pop open the hood and poke around.
And so it goes with job hunting. So many of the things we really want to know,…
Read MoreDecember 14, 2021
It’s that time of year again! I can’t wait to drink egg nog, watch Christmas Vacation for the 7641st time, and erect the Festivus pole/prepare for the airing of grievances.
Speaking of grievances, have you ever gotten a really terrible holiday gift?
Many moons ago, a boyfriend of mine got me a stunning, likely expensive, gold bracelet. The design was lovely and it really was beautiful…except for the fact it was gold. What’s wrong with gold, you…
Read MoreNovember 16, 2021
Katelynn Barbosa
Labor Day weekend of this year, my husband and I decided that it was time to get serious about potty training our two-year old and we decided to commit to the three-day method. For the uninitiated (untraumatized), the three-day method is a very popular potty training method where you stay home with your toddler for three straight days, never take your eyes off of them, and anytime they start to do their numbers, you…
Read MoreOctober 19, 2021
Katelynn Barbosa, Stephanie Keaveney, Claire Kittle Dixon
In the spirit of Halloween, our team wanted to share our best hiring horror stories with you. Names and identities have been changed to protect the innocent (and the ghoulishly guilty!).
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The Candidate Who Ghosted Us
A couple of years ago I was working with a nonprofit who wanted to hire for a senior level opening. We identified an impressive candidate who had worked for one of the…
Read MoreSeptember 21, 2021
Katelynn Barbosa
A couple of years ago, I was home sick with a bad sinus infection and chose to spend that time in the most productive way possible – reading seminal novels I had never gotten around to. Just kidding. I binged watching HGTV. If you haven’t watched HGTV before, the basic format of every HGTV show involves the following:
Act 1: Couple wants to buy house and meets with realtor to tell them what they are…
Read MoreSeptember 15, 2021
Many moons ago I was at a networking function in Washington, DC when a gentleman strolled up to me with the Worst Networking Line Ever™.
“What do you do?”
“I’m a graduate student at….”
Before I could finish the sentence he turned around and walked away. I kid you not. His exceptional deductive reasoning skills led him to believe I would be no help in his quest to take over the world, so he left me…
Read MoreJuly 20, 2021
By Katelynn Barbosa
I’ll never forget the day my daughter first discovered cake. Her eyes lit up in a feeling of pure bliss, discovery, and shock. How had we been keeping this food from her?
Ever since, cake is never far from her mind. We recently hosted a large family gathering where she walked around to every person in attendance inquiring “Cake? Cake? Cake?” And now, even in the midst of a classic two-year old tantrum in…
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